tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087107830772911589.post7518642928738263750..comments2023-08-29T01:59:26.143-07:00Comments on Be Strong, Be Confident: at a stand stillMachttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16251056309107388969noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087107830772911589.post-76391604939985296572013-01-12T19:13:18.191-08:002013-01-12T19:13:18.191-08:00Mac. I love you. You are so amazing and so strong....Mac. I love you. You are so amazing and so strong. I feel you. <br /><br />I'm not sure if it's the same thing as you're talking about, but I was thinking about when I was with my ex ... how I had so much to do. And how if I didn't get it done, there wasn't ever anyone there to pick up my slack. If I didn't do it, then--well--it just didn't get done. It's such a helpless feeling to give your all and realize sometimes that it's just not enough.<br /><br />Good things will happen for you. I know it. Hang in there, honey.<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />~aAngelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07417357478572141750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087107830772911589.post-54065332168514129262013-01-09T14:32:55.389-08:002013-01-09T14:32:55.389-08:00Times are tough and stressful. It's hard waiti...Times are tough and stressful. It's hard waiting! My husband runs out of work mid February, so we are in the same boat. <br /><br />Keep praying and trust in God.<br /><br />Hugs!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02433163439399954907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087107830772911589.post-73056826614575715602013-01-08T19:53:46.015-08:002013-01-08T19:53:46.015-08:00Amen! We're changing everything financially an...Amen! We're changing everything financially and are completly relying on Husband's income for the first time. It's terrifying, but I am looking forward to relying on him for anything. I'm tired for making everything happen.Buffalo Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05715621872243024241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087107830772911589.post-39087386388347667662013-01-07T17:08:51.428-08:002013-01-07T17:08:51.428-08:00THIS! Yes. I so have been here (and still am occ...THIS! Yes. I so have been here (and still am occasionally.) It's one thing to detach, and set boundaries and all that -- but when your life is so intricately enmeshed with someone, it's beyond frustrating when you can just step in and MAKE THINGS HAPPEN in their life. Job ones were a BIG one for us -- I remember losing it on more than one occasion, where I was like, "If you hadn't planned on stepping up and not putting your job at risk and not working hard enough to get promotions, could've you let me know before we had kids and I quit my awesome job with awesome benefits," as I secretly thought, "If we lose our home, I will divorce you. No question." <br />I have learned patience, and I've learned to let things go, and I have learned to not live in worry or fear as much (all things I will need to relearn another dozen times or so, I'm sure), so the trials did some good, but SO COMPLETELY difficult in the midst of them. Hugs. You just keep doing what you need to, and God will take care of you. Always.HXhttp://workingtowardshealing.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com