I'm a wife dealing with her husband's addiction to pornography. I hope to be a resource for wives (and family members) dealing with similar struggles. Please join in the conversation and leave comments--even if you are here for curiosity's sake and are just learning about this kind of struggle! You can read my story here and the 4 things I think every addict's wife should know here.

Monday, March 12, 2012


To my readers: In case you didn't see, I guest posted on A Blog About Love today. If you don't follow that blog, I highly recommend you start.

To those who followed the link here from Mara and Danny's post: Welcome! I'm quite open to conversations (even from people who don't see things the same way I do or who don't really understand much about addiction or those who don't think pornography is even a bad thing), so chime in if you have any questions or comments.

To the women who are struggling with this or similar situations in your marriages: I'm so glad you're here. We understand how you are feeling. Sending you my love. Be sure to check out the links in my side bar. These are the women who inspired me to write, and I consider them my friends even though we have never met.


  1. So happy to have found your blog. My husband struggled with pornography and has come a long way, but I've been struggling with the effects from his addiction for almost 7 years now. So glad to have a place to come and people to "talk" with about this.

  2. Sorry I didn't respond to this before. I'm glad you're here, too. I've been struggling to deal with this for as long as you. It sucks, but it's easier with everyone here.